January 8th, 2009 Will he txt//call back or see me again?
Well, we were texting all day monday and i really liked him. We even spent 2 hours on a phone call. lol. and tuesday morning he sent me a cute text saying good morning beautiful. im not a fan of meeting people online, but i thought this could actually work because he lived close. monday he suggested comming over, and i was hesitant because i had just started talking to him the day before and didnt really want to sneak him over the house so soon, ya know? i told him this, and he understood. he said he just really wanted to see me and friday was so long away.
well tuesday we talked and i decided to have him over. he came over when my mom went to bed and we just talked for a while and seemed to really click. we felt comfortable around each other and it wasnt awkward or anything. it was actually really nice.
well, we got to hooking up... we were kissing and cuddling and all. it was really nice. we did tease each other a bit and i did go down on him.....and he finished and all and said i was really good at it. we cuddled for a little more and then he went home. he was over for about 2 hours.
i havent heard from him since? i texted him wednesday and got no replies. i texted him like once today i think and still havent heard back....im kinda scared i took it too far by having him over and hooking up, but its what he wanted too. i know some people may say guys dont respect girls who do that so soon, but why hasnt he said ANYTHING to me? like no replies what so ever. and yeah maybe some people wait some time to talk to the person after a hookup, but it wasnt awkward or anything....so i dont see why there would be like a time gap of us talking again......one of my texts even said "i hope i didnt take things to far..." cause i want him to know i dont want to be all about that....and i thought he was like that too, since he said he was looking for something with more meaning then just one night stands...
so what im asking here is, do you think i'll ever see him again? and if theres any guys on here, what would you do? what would you be thinking?
any input or stories would be greatly appriciated.
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I'd suggest calling him rather than texting to find out for sure, though I can't lie it sounds to me like he kinda played you :/ I don't know that for sure though, there is the 3 day rule you know....... after 3 days of not hearing from him I think you would know your answer for sure.
But the cuddling makes me think that naw he isn't playing you, a guy doesn't cuddle when playing a girl (or so I'm told idk, I've never 'played' a girl before) , maybe he's getting nervous again or something.
I'd try calling him, if you don't hear from him in 3 days tho you will know the answer.
Personally I would have called or text the next day, but that's me.
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